Oral Sex

by scottj65
A common email I get from my readers is a question on how to give a girl (especially their girlfriend) an orgasm. Like most guys, they want to make sure their woman is having fun during sexual intercourse. The problem is they encounter a girl who is having trouble achieving the pinnacle of the sexual experience and want to help her.

But the goods news is there are a few ways to give a girlfriend an orgasm. In this article, I will outline a three step plan that you can use to help your achieve it.

Let 's get started...

The first and most important step is to set up the right kind of environment. Unlike men who are ready for sex at any given moment, women need an atmosphere that is conducive to sex. That means a little bit of romance with candles and sensual music.

While you might feel cheesy doing some of this, a sexual atmosphere is incredibly important to turning her on. Once you have her in this atmosphere, talk to her and tell her how much you're attracted to her. Make this a special time for her that prepares for whats to come.

Next you should concentrate on foreplay. I would consider foreplay to be one of the most powerful ways to give a girlfriend an orgasm. Engage your woman in heavy petting and continue to set the mood by confidently talking to her. At first stay away from your genital area, but as the petting progresses, tease her by going there for a few seconds and moving away.

During foreplay, it 's important to develop a build up to the sex part. So teasing can really help the encounter. You can use teasing by touching sensitive areas and moving away. Done right, this will drive her absolutely crazy.

Once foreplay is culminated, you should move on to the third and final step which is oral sex. If you know women, then you know that a lot of them have trouble having an orgasm from the standard penetration sex. So your only shot for giving your girlfriend an orgasm could be from oral sex.

So now that you're down there, what should you do?

Well the most important thing to do is to continue to tease, which means licking around her inner thighs and near her genital area. Every so often start going down on her and then quickly move away. You should keep this up for at least a few minutes. If you do this right, she'll eventually grab your head or make it VERY CLEAR that she wants you to get down to business.

Now that you're at the main event you should try different techniques and see her reaction. Since all women are different it might take a bit of hit-or-miss to see what she actually enjoys. You can tell if she is enjoying by her rapid breathing or jerking motion if you're doing stuff something is right.

Because women and their sexual preferences are different, I cannot give you absolutes about what will work every time. But I can list a few tips that can help you along:

- Use lots of saliva. As I always say..."The wetter, the better"

- Be sure to pay attention to her clitoral area. You can use your finger or your tongue to properly stimulate this area.

- Find her G-Spot. While this could be a whole course unto itself, the G-Spot is incredibly important to creating a powerful orgasm in a woman. You can find the G-Spot by putting your finger inside a girl and feeling along the top of her vaginal area. You'll feel a sponge like texture along the top. If you really want to drive her wild, stimulate this while stimulating her clitoris

- Don't be afraid to try new things. If something doesn't work, move on and test new moves. Eventually you'll come across something that really works.

While there are a ton of different ways to give a girlfriend an orgasm, you'll have to keep working at it till you find a move that she REALLY enjoys. Don't be discouraged if it doesn't work at first, just keep trying and practicing new things.

3 Ways to Give a Girlfriend an Orgasm

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